At this point I honestly have no idea if you’re being for real or if you’re just trolling me…
I don’t think your questioning about the Rs.32,000/= charge was inappropriate in the way you described. Since you guys are quite new to one another so it’s normal to misinterpret and get confused. Do not let negative thoughts come into your mind regarding this transaction, and do “khush gumani” (approx translation would be ~ wishful thinking) even if you later find out that the money was spent on something entirely different. Long distance relationships need far more careful choice of words than face to face discussion. Sometimes there are expenses that we just do not want to disclose to even our closest folks. For example, medical expenses, returning a loan, giving a loan, paying for a mess we can find ourselves in, paying brother/sister/parents, etc.
If however such unexplained expenses become a norm, then you should definitely look into it more closely. Do not let your hard earned money be spent frivolously. If you find evidence of frivolous spending then figure out if it is due do some anxiety/depression issues, carelessness, or laziness; and act accordingly. In Pakistan, budgeting can be very tricky. If you are lazy and do not look for bargains, then living expenses can be more than what you might have in Canada.
Last but not the least, be mindful that there is a lot of criminal activity that takes place in Pakistan. You do not want her to God forbid get noticed by some criminal. Recently a family friend of mine bought a gold chain to give as a gift, and within hours their home was raided by dacoits. Alhamdulillah no one got hurt but the trauma still gives his family nightmares.