SO youve compromised in your marriage, how do you then go through with it? it could be something that you not in favour of, but have to/want to do asin all relationships…
Re: how to survive a compromise?
It depends on what the compromise is. If it is something you were aware of before your marriage even happened then there is really nothing to complain about. If, however, it is something which you compromised about after you got married and wasn't something you ever envisioned doing, then it would be necessary to discuss it with your spouse. Find ways to reach an agreement where both of you can find the arrangement acceptable.
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Compromise is a part of marriage. It is not a disease for which you need a treatment. When your spouse is supportive compromise becomes very easy. In your other threads too I told you that you need to do adjustments when you are living with your own parents too . When living with a family you need to do some adjustments and compromises they are very much required to keep the family life alive and should not be regretted or challenged unless your basic rights are being compromised or you are being abused.
I give you an example you are masha allah a mother now. Every routine in your life must have changed after the birth of your baby. All of us moms get sleepless nights in the early months of the baby. We don't feel angry towards the baby because that is something we have to do being parents. That is adjustment in my opinion and it comes in all relationships.
The more you will think the more you will feel. Start appreciating the good things in your life and learn to ignore you'll be a 100 times happier than you are now I promise you that.
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abhi tak no big compromise Allah ka shuker and choti moti cheezon ki i dun take tension 
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Compromise is a must in order to make any marriage a success. But the extent to which compromise can be made depends on each party and the situation. But women are expected to compromise more. Small compromises are easy but big compromises can hurt egos and can affect the relationship if not managed properly.
Re: how to survive a compromise?
Compromise is a must in order to make any marriage a success. But the extent to which compromise can be made depends on each party and the situation. But women are expected to compromise more. Small compromises are easy but big compromises can hurt egos and can affect the relationship if not managed properly.
True!
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hmmmmm, thanks, i understand all this, why is it so hard for me then......why do i want my huisband to only think of me and my feelings and leave his parent sbehind?
yes i was aware of situation before, so am gutted at my self at the moment..which is why small things **** me off easily here.....which maybe wouldnt have had i still been there.
how do you leanr to ignore stuff?
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He may realise when the sitation gets worse. I mean they've already found osama there,God knows who else is hiding in those areas!
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LOL No cos then he will say well if the everyone else can live here,m why cant we..plus his parents may not budge..
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hmmmmm, thanks, i understand all this, why is it so hard for me then......why do i want my huisband to only think of me and my feelings and leave his parent sbehind?
yes i was aware of situation before, so am gutted at my self at the moment..which is why small things **** me off easily here.....which maybe wouldnt have had i still been there.
how do you leanr to ignore stuff?
Have you made any friends there?
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SO youve compromised in your marriage, how do you then go through with it? it could be something that you not in favour of, but have to/want to do asin all relationships....
It depends on the nature , type , form and format of compromise. I need more details to help.
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Comprise is part of successful marriage. Any relationship requires you to sacrifice one way or the other but with our inlaws we seem to not see that as an option. They are parents of your spouse and they should get the same treatment or respect that our parents deserve. We compromise quiet a bit for our own family especially our spouse and children. I don't think it's fair when one spouse compromises more than other.. than it's a different issue.
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why do you want him to leave his parents behind?
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Nadz, consider yrself lucky atleast u know u were gonna have to make this compromise. Just focus on whatever made you go ahead with this marriage with prior knowledge of the compromises you will have to make.