how to stop looking

on other ladies after you get engaged/nikkafied/married??

:roman:

Re: how to stop looking

Buy an eye dog and get out of home blind folded.

One mulla type co-worker of mine who would always keep his gaze lowered ,said that one of the woman co-worker complained to others that this mulla guy was not having an eye contact with her and was avoiding looking at her. :smack: :bummer: :silly:

Re: how to stop looking

you can't. I mean most MEN can't.

Just lower you gaze so you don't embarass yourself

Re: how to stop looking

It's better to have eye contact. If I lower my gaze I end up staring at the boobs.

acha jee. what about women they can't either?

.. yup ..that’s another problem :bummer:

:rotfl:

I see you edited your post. But I am not going to edit mine. :snooty:

Every other woman becomes ur sister when u become committed to one. :chai: Now try n stare …

Re: how to stop looking

you guys just cant help yourself. feel sorry for your poor wives

this don’t work, you can try too change the word from sister to brother !

please help .. is their a way? .. ladies get offended here if you look down in conversation !

Re: how to stop looking

wear eye patches

Well then the only other thing that will work is ur woman's jutti.

If that doesn't work either... Allah he haafiz.

Re: how to stop looking

ummm... i think it takes time...surely to stop looking at women... but the man should try and remember his commitment to his wife. He wouldnt like it if she did the same so why should the man still get away with it?

Re: how to stop looking

After alll .. whose our father ?? Hazrat Aaadam AS ..which makes us all his children .. so id vote for barbiecues answer :smiley:

howevr, :khumar: & :chai: awiting more intresting answers :D..but then again its about how comitted you are to your other half and if your joined legally .. i mean married .. then it becomes a matter of how strong your imaan is .. and to follow up on this answer of mine .. i shall provide a hadith ..when the Prophet SAW went to Miraaj and he witnessed something on His way to Masjid e Aqsa ..

don't worry i already bought a maria.b shuttlecock burqa for her and also full hijab afghani style.. she can see but no one can see her..it;s like walking tent !

she is not with me.. when i look... ...

well then look further down, admire her shoes or the floor.

Or Blinkers.

She is not... but Allah s.w.t. is.

Even if that doesn't put u off staring at other women then we can put an end to this thread. Happy staring.