on other ladies after you get engaged/nikkafied/married??
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on other ladies after you get engaged/nikkafied/married??
:roman:
Re: how to stop looking
Buy an eye dog and get out of home blind folded.
One mulla type co-worker of mine who would always keep his gaze lowered ,said that one of the woman co-worker complained to others that this mulla guy was not having an eye contact with her and was avoiding looking at her.
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Re: how to stop looking
you can't. I mean most MEN can't.
Just lower you gaze so you don't embarass yourself
Re: how to stop looking
It's better to have eye contact. If I lower my gaze I end up staring at the boobs.
you can't. I mean most MEN can't.
acha jee. what about women they can't either?
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I see you edited your post. But I am not going to edit mine. ![]()
Every other woman becomes ur sister when u become committed to one.
Now try n stare …
Re: how to stop looking
you guys just cant help yourself. feel sorry for your poor wives
this don’t work, you can try too change the word from sister to brother !
you guys just cant help yourself. feel sorry for your poor wives
please help .. is their a way? .. ladies get offended here if you look down in conversation !
Re: how to stop looking
wear eye patches
this don't work, you can try too change the word from sister to brother !
Well then the only other thing that will work is ur woman's jutti.
If that doesn't work either... Allah he haafiz.
Re: how to stop looking
ummm... i think it takes time...surely to stop looking at women... but the man should try and remember his commitment to his wife. He wouldnt like it if she did the same so why should the man still get away with it?
Re: how to stop looking
After alll .. whose our father ?? Hazrat Aaadam AS ..which makes us all his children .. so id vote for barbiecues answer ![]()
howevr,
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awiting more intresting answers :D..but then again its about how comitted you are to your other half and if your joined legally .. i mean married .. then it becomes a matter of how strong your imaan is .. and to follow up on this answer of mine .. i shall provide a hadith ..when the Prophet SAW went to Miraaj and he witnessed something on His way to Masjid e Aqsa ..
ummm... i think it takes time...surely to stop looking at women... but the man should try and remember his commitment to his wife. He wouldnt like it if she did the same so why should the man still get away with it?
don't worry i already bought a maria.b shuttlecock burqa for her and also full hijab afghani style.. she can see but no one can see her..it;s like walking tent !
Well then the only other thing that will work is ur woman's jutti.
If that doesn't work either... Allah he haafiz.
she is not with me.. when i look... ...
It's better to have eye contact. If I lower my gaze I end up staring at the boobs.
well then look further down, admire her shoes or the floor.
she is not with me.. when i look... ...
She is not... but Allah s.w.t. is.
Even if that doesn't put u off staring at other women then we can put an end to this thread. Happy staring.