Re: How to save this marriage?
Beating is never justified...there is some mention of beating (with a pencil like object - to tap wife) as per my knowledge this too should be done** if she is engaging in adulterous behavior only** . For no other reason is it justified.
Anyways, marriage is not a bed of roses. Sometimes people who enjoying falling in love - find it very difficult to stay in love once they are faced with the mundane realities of life. There are those who enjoy the courtship phase and the excitement associated with it. Once they get the prize it is no longer wonderful. Some ppl mistakenly think that no what they do their spouse will stay in love with them.
I think it's more than a beating if the misses is being adventurous.