how to ruin a family

Two men who stabbed and slashed a man 43 times in an “honour killing” in 1996 were convicted unanimously by a jury of his murder yesterday.

The Old Bailey jury took four days to find Waseem Afsar and Nisar Khan guilty of murdering Ahmed Bashir, a 21-year-old Afghan who had been in a relationship with Afsar’s younger sister Nighat. The pair ambushed Bashir outside his home in Hounslow, west London, and killed him with a sword and a machete

Afsar, who was serving a life sentence for a separate murder of which he was convicted in 1997, and Khan were also found guilty of the attempted murder of Bashir’s friend Abdul Ebrahimkhail, whom they wounded in the attack after he tried to intervene. They will be sentenced on Friday.

Nighat is now married with three children and lives in east London.

*(Hmmph, wonder how they managed to marry her off?)*Yesterday her father, Mohammed, told the Guardian: “The family is ruined. I don’t speak to anyone any more … Allah has taken everything away from me. I ask what I have done to deserve this?”
self pity?

Did HE teach his family these values?
http://www.guardian.co.uk/uk_news/story/0,3604,1648426,00.html

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Why does this kind of stuff happens so much in UK?

You never her such stories coming out of US/Canada.

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That's a twist.. .they kill the guy and not the sister.. hm..

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i know..usually it’s the girl who is killed.

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I’ve heard that american medias are less free to communicate than european medias…

back to topic: honor killings are the kind of cultural stuff that are better off in textbooks to remind the young generation of what they SHOULD NOT do…unfortunately some people can’t get over it yet…inshallah more and more people get educated and drop bad customs

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tribal customs sometime can contradict islamic values

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perhaps they should emulate the wisdom of the Taliban to make the American “medias” more free?

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where did you find that Taliban had free media:confused:

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The saying goes you can take them out of the pind but can't take the pind out of them.

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I believe that’s true to one extent: getting educated may take the pind out of them…

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^ ever heard of a *parha-likha-jaahil *?

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never, can you explain?

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its like calling so,meone an educated idiot. jahil meaning illiterate.

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Parha likha jaahil means… he’s educated but still a jaahil paindu..

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thank you for explanation hiccup and sara516 :hug:

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thank you..sara and hiccup.