how to react

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Re: how to react

@Mirch

Why is it so difficult to forget and forgive something which happened three years ago ?
Why there is a need to look for hidden meanings and hidden agenda ?
If there is a hidden meaning and hidden agenda it will come to light if your mom forgives and forgets otherwise it can be a new beginning of a lifetime friendship with a desperate woman who wants to build bridges and start a fresh.
Go for it and get rewarded by Allah(SWT) who loves to forgive.

Bilkul. it is very difficult to ask for forgiveness especially after time has passed. The longer it is, the more difficult it becomes. I think your mom should graciously accept it and make your MIL feel good