You see a person with some disability in a party , the disability can be physical or mental . You should be sympathetic to them or just plain ignore their disability and treat them as you would treat a normal person ?
Do you ask them or their family as to the reason of their disability ? Or you save your curiosity for later when you are more intimate with this person and his/her family ? Or you never ever ask that question and wait to be told by that person or a family member of that person ?
I was at a party , one of the guest had a boy with down syndrome , this boy was creating nuisance for other guests , for example he would pickup naan from my plate ,bite on it and then put it back in my plate. Now I do not want to touch this bread or even that plate . So I did not say anything to this guy or the father. I simply pushed the plate on a side , got another plate and moved to other corner of the dinner table. This boy followed me but I made sure that he could not reach my food or plates.
I think that this father should have been more considerate of other guests and should have tried to restrain this kid or should have made some arrangements to come to the party without this kid.
What do you say ?
First of all I would like to advice you all, whenever you see a person with a disability just say
1- "Astaghfirullah ( 3 times)" ( for the one who is diable and May Allah keep us safe from any kind of disability )
2- "Alhumdulilah ( 3 times )" ( for Allah SWT made is perfect with no disablities )
3- "Subhaan Allah ( 3 times )" ( for His praise as he knows better what to do and what to not )
Secondly, Disability is from Allah, not from man himself, you do what you thought better that time, some kind of disabilities, like Mental disability specially in Young person Its dangerous we should keep ourselves away from them only if we dont know the person perfectly, as they can harm you anytime and they have more power than a normal man.
But in your case he was a child, you should give him a plate with naan in it, and let him sit and play with, he will never disturb you, and remember the kids always follow the person they like, regardless he / she is stranger or parents.
3rdly, we should behave normallu with physical disablities as they are normal and not mental case, they can think better, if they will get a chance, they will score better if they will get a chance, anyhow.. we should not let that person realize that he is disable try to handle him normal but help him not to feel his disability.
I hope you got my point.