How to move forward??

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Re: How to move forward??

@tipusulatn

A colleague introduced him to her. There is a good feeling about him but she since she know him for a month only would like to take her own time, but the guy is in hurry to marry.

She is asking it to be done in two stages, first family must complete it investigations before she would make her own decision.

The Problem is we are not sure how to do investigation on this, there are few obvious issues:-

1. We are urdu speaking Karachiteis based oversea, they are Karachi based Punjab Urban (we do not know anything beyond Lahore and Qasoor connection).
2. Would cultural difference be an issue?
3. Both are working for same company, he is in Karachi and she one of the far east location, but like her to become full time home maker thus losing her financial freedom/security.
4. He is not interested moving oversea at least for first few years.
5. We are financially more established then his side.

We do have serious reservation on her to becoming housewife immediately after marrying, but do not rule out she would do so few years down the line depending on family situation.

So far I like the person, managed to get some common referrals in his old work place, beyond that i am hopelessly lost what to do next. Or if this indeed a good match?

Any suggestion would be highly appreciated.

from what i have read, you live in singapore . well , you and i both know that the pakistani community here is too smal with hardly any boys (forget abt gd sharif boys). girls are finding it hard to find a rishta. so why not give this a chance. there MAY be cultural differences due to him being punjabi, but well, at least he lives in karachi… the girl will have to sacrifice. i say give this rishta a chance. 25 yr is a gd pakki umar.