How to move forward??

[ShahreyarKhan]

Re: How to move forward??

I agree with demesne

@Demesne

^ at the end of the day she will need to compromise on her job for whatever reason - children etc. There is a timeline to when she can get married in Pakistani society generally. Beyond which her chances are slim and rishtas get few and far between, also their quality deteriorates.

agree

@Altair

The biggest question apparently is the silliest. Its her life, her proposal, her living standard, her career, her preference. Why do you want a bunch of strangers to tell you how to control her life? She is a big girl, and at a managerial position at a blue chip (this is probably the 20th time I have read this here), I am quite sure she knows what her preferences are and what she wants to do with her life. Just give her the choices and let her decide.As for the background checks, like you said if you know people from his old work place, that should not be a problem.

Based on your personally biased comments related to rishta, if I were to give an opinion, I would say do not go ahead **with this rishta. **

@tipusulatn

And the biggest question, should she secrify her career to marry this guy, knowing that she would need to compromise on her living standard, as well as losing her chance of getting at managerial position at a blue chip MNC (she is already performing that role informally)