Re: how to minimize chatting with fiance
I’m not sure why you’re not able to figure this out on your own b/c the solution seems pretty simple.
Why? 
Why do you need to be on the computer every single evening? Go read a book. Spend time with family. Go out with friends. Go work out. Take some type of evening classes related to a hobby. Is it really that difficult to find an activity to keep you busy that doesn’t require a computer? And even IF you get on the computer…why are you logging onto chats every-single-time? I manage to get on the internet and I’m rarely on any IMs or chatting devices…so I know this is definitely possible.