ohh sweets .. shaadi ka din bohat hi khoobsoorat din hota hai and u make it ur special day- love will all ur hearts content and love with passion… inshallah the rest is worked at - communicate effectively and inshallah compromise with a rational insight.. u will be fine inshallah.. its a lifetime commitment and i believe u will both make it work- baqi let it go over ur head- each person in your families wants to be part of such a happy and prestigious day.. let them fuss over it - u just concentrate on you and ur honnewaala- its all about you both and keep that firmly in mind…many many best wishes and duahs sweets!!!
inshallah ameen !!!