How to make parents accept

[Maham]

Re: How to make parents accept

@Chameli420

My instant response to that is that if a guy cant convince his family and stand up for her today he is so not worth it. Her response to that was that they have the same spiritual guide (shaykh/peer) and if he tells her or him that they should let go cuz our parents arent accepting they feel that they have to do so as their shaikh’s request is an order for them. I dont really understand that mentality but want to respect my sister’s choice and path of life and want my parents to agree and accept the rishta.

I am sure there are lots of ppl here who have been through this.

So pleeeeeeease share your thoughts!

I am not getting you here. You said the guy’s family came for rishta last month SO how are they not accepting this rishta?!. IF they are not then they wouldnt have come over. I am confused. Now ofcourse they can’t wait all life for your family’s response. Everyone has to go on with in life.

My suggestion: You said your sister is young, still studying SO as an elder sister make sure she is picking the right guy. Maybe its not only the caste that your parents has issues with? Can’t you go home and have a one on one talk with your parents since you seem to be the one most comfortable to talk to them regarding this situation.