How to make HIM happy?

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Re: How to make HIM happy?

@FairyTale

How to make Allah happy?
read between lines

If I say my prayers regularly, I do it for myself right?

Partially right. It is packaged in submission deal.

If I pay Zakat money on time, its for my own good right?

Again partially yes.

If I cannot deliberately do bad with anyone, and doing good is what is instilled in me may be coz our parents brought us up this way, its again for my own good in aakhirat correct?

It is partially in your DNA and rest is brought up.

When I am at work, I try to be fair with all ppl around me regardless of their nationalities and religions. Thats again good for my own repute at the work place.
OK

I help out my family, parents and siblings, financially. But I see it as my responsibility as a daughter to take care of my old parents and as a sister be helpful to youngsters.
Taking care of parents is a responsibility but not in Financial term. Its guys who are responsible for this. You will be earning bonus points in rewards for doing so :k:

When I pray, its always about myself , my wishes, my family , my friends and at the most about all muslims.

From sometime, I am feeling that my whole life is about me and mine. Where am I doing anything to make Him happy?

I quote a renowned Darwesh

Allah Apko Asaani Ata farmaye our Asaaniyan bantney ka sharf ata farmaye

It is my calculated guess that Allah will be happy if we try to make people around us happy/ address their problem and try to reduce them.

Just one precaution :

DO NOT MAKE PEOPLE DEPENDENT ON YOU FOR LONG RUN.

Do it for short period, devise a strategy and make them stand on their foot ASAP. Otherwise stay aloof. It is a nature of some people that they become parasite or virus. Stay away from them as much as possible.