i am not trying to breed them. they are both fixed. cuddling means cuddling. he likes to cuddle up with her but she hates to cuddle with him. she cuddles with me though so it isn’t like she doesn’t like cuddling at all. strangest thing happened last night. she was chillaxing on the carpet and he just came and cuddled up with her and she didn’t move for a whole minute! then she just ran off but at least i was able to get a photo.
You can ask your vet to refer you to a pet psychologist. They exist ! I kid you not! Or maybe the vet has some answers. Someone I knew had a pet parrot and he kept pulling his feathers out. The parrot was diagnosed as depressed and had treatment.