How to make friends???

[PyariCgudia]

Re: How to make friends???

Agree with Deeba.

[strangeworld]

Re: How to make friends???

@Aaliyah1

I’m struggling to make friends I got married almost 3 years ago and have moved to a different area. I still keep in touch with my old friends and we meet up occasionally but it’s difficult with distance.
I just haven’t been able to make new friends-where do you meet people?
I have met people through work but it’s an all white workforce and socialising with them is limited as I don’t drink etc.
I have tried to socialise through my inlaws circle of friends but tend to find that it’s only the elders that meet up and the younger generation don’t go to the same events etc.
Sooo where can I meet people and make friends I’m begining to get a bit lonely now

All I can conclude from your writing is that you meet/greet many people daily which means there’s an opportunity to make new friends. And I think if you don’t drink shouldn’t be a problem getting acceptability and becoming a social person.

Here’s what you should do in my opinion.

Start sharing
Start spending
Start smiling
Start helping
Have kids
Try reaching Allah

And I’m curious why you need a friend anyway? Why your husband isn’t your friend?

[CEO1]

Re: How to make friends???

Bribe em’?

[Qabil]

Re: How to make friends???

Sorry can’t help. But if some years down the road you decide to learn ways to unfriend people in real life, make a thread here and I will, bashart e hayat o aafiyat, share a handful of realistic ideas.

[Gujranwalay]

Re: How to make friends???

most of the younger lot seems more focused on their phones than to make friends and/or hangout. Even when they hangout everyone is more busy on their smartphones…

The older lot is easier to befriend, as they’re less likely to be using too much smartphone, and/or are already past that craze of smartphones already…its not easy these days but nevertheless you will in good time.