Ok, so I have seen ppl say saber kero saber kero… n stuff
Aakhir bunda kub tak saber keray, kya ye haqeeat hai kay jub aik musebat aati hai to duusri bina invitation darwazay per he khari hoti hai… ye aazmaish ka arsa itna lamba kyun hota hai 
Re: How to keep your Spirits high?
Here is a verse from the Quran that may inspire you if you ponder upon it.
Also If you read surah Yusuf’s tafseer and translation then also you can see the reasoning and Inshallah your heart will feel at ease.
BTW without asking, I pray you can overcome the Tests you are experiencing inshallah.
Surah Baqarah verse 155 (Read tafsir here from famous TAfsir Ibn kathir - for verse 155)
start reading at the bottom and click next for the TAFSIR…
http://www.qtafsir.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=280#1
(155. And certainly, We shall test you with something of fear, hunger, loss of wealth, lives and fruits, but give glad tidings to As-Sabirin (the patient).) (156. Who, when afflicted with calamity, say: "Truly, to Allah we belong and truly, to Him we shall return.‘’) (157. They are those on whom are the Salawat (i.e., who are blessed and will be forgiven) from their Lord, and (they are those who) receive His mercy, and it is they who are the guided ones.)
Re: How to keep your Spirits high?
Die on a mountain top... keep your spirit high..
Re: How to keep your Spirits high?
its part of life , u hav to face is 1 way of the other by urself 