how to keep good relations

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Re: how to keep good relations

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Don’t say or even think things like “This all may be Hajj feelings.” This kind of negative and suspicious behavior is what destroys relationships.

Accept her good deeds with graciousness and openness. But have no expectations of her, so you don’t constantly resent what didn’t happen like you wanted.

Don’t look for reasons to take offense. Don’t obsess over reasons to feel insulted.

Accept that everyone around you is flawed and self-centered. That doesn’t make them bad or evil or malicious. It just makes them human.

Totally agree. Be nice n don’t have any expectations. If she’s being nice, I would be happy.