How to judge or test someone’s love?
“Well, I just don’t know whether he really loves me or only passing his time.”
“I am not really sure if she is really serious or just flirting?”
" I thought she really loves me, but she was some piece of…"
" Do you know their engagement broke up after five years?"
We hear such remarks and statements almost everyday. In this fast, mechanical era of breaking marriages, increasing adulteries, decreasing legitimates, high divorces and short tempers, the most important question is how to judge your partner’s feelings. I thought and thought…how to judge about your partner, that how much she or he loves you?
And then Allah poured the answer into my heart.
Yes it’s that simple.
Just see how much he or she loves her Allah and her Prophet, if the person is caring about them (by true means), then for sure, he or she will be caring for you too. Those people who knowingly disobey Allah, and are not sincere even with their faith and religious principles, how come they are supposed to be sincere and honest with their “worldly” partners? Similarly, I firmly believe that anyone who can leave his / her parents for a new, fresh beloved, can later leave his wife too, for some other girl.
" More a man loves his Prophet and Prophet’s family, more loving he would be with his wife." (Imam Jafer E Sadiq)
