How to instill your values in children

Re: How to instill your values in children

i have a question for you, why won't you give your daughter the choice of wearing a scarf or not? i mean, what if she's older, like in her teens, and decides this is not for her- i mean, that she is religious and all that but feels that she'd rather not do the headscarf thing. wouldn't it be more of a decision if she made it on her own rather than being told she HAD to?
no offence meant, i'm just curious and don't really have any close friends who do hijaab and have kids and are making that choice that i could ask instead :)