how to impress sweet churii(knife) MIL?

[Sara516]

Re: how to impress sweet churii(knife) MIL?

Why don't you ask the jetani who'se from the "lower class" family?

[NomiCA]

Re: how to impress sweet churii(knife) MIL?

@Nisha25

why do you have to refer to her as a sweet knife(meethi churi) though, i mean right from the beginning you’re making her out to be evil. we aren’t perfect people especially the younger generation and your MIL is more experienced so it’s ok if she criticizes a bit. try to compliment her every chance you get to show her that you really admire how well she cooks and does everything else. try to improve your cooking b/c we all have flaws and need to improve ourselves in some way. i’m just thinking, maybe you should try to see her as your husband’s mother not as the evil MIL, the one that raised him and took care of him since he was a little baby, when you start seeing her from that perspective maybe it’ll be easier to get close to her although easier said than done so it was just a thought

I think its all the guy’s fault……would u agree?

[KKF]

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@Reha

Bolo “aap sikha dein na…aap bhi to ab bilkul meri maa jaisi hein”…

u sound so convinciing Reha that ur future MIL will NOT utter those words ever again

[Elegance]

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Well.... to be very honest whenever I hear anything against my parents then I become rude like I clearly show (through my actions) that I don't like what she (my MIL) has said, I just can't help it, they are my parents they raised me just like she did to my hubby so why should I hear anything against my parents wo bhi bila waja?. But I won't suggest you to do the same, just say clearly that "ap ghalat keh rahi hain" lol I don't understand that why most of the MIL's thik that they are har fun-e-mola and they can't disgust their bahu's any skill plus they don't accept any 'khaami' in their own daughters. phewww I simply hate this kind of behavior.

whenever u start doing something call her and ask her to teach u how to do.bug her all the time , say i want to be like u expert in everything.

btw my sister did soemthing similar with her MIL. if my sis cook Alu keema her MIL will say " oh alu aisaey nahe aisay katney they".same kind of comments on all her cooking. so what she did when she start making handi she will go to MIL with alu, knif plate and say" aunti aap yeh alu kaat dein jeisy aap chahti hein". she did this 2, 3 times and her MIL goes " nahen tum kaat lo jesey bhi, koi faraq nahi parta". some MIL just want to bug their bahus all the time, thanks GOD my MIL is not like this.

well this sometimes doesn't work with every mother in law, it's my personal experience, when I got married I didn't even know how to boil rice like I didn't know how much water should be added in the pot, my MIL cooked them infront of me, next time when I started pouring water in the pot exactly with the quantity she told me before but you know she came and said "nahi ye pani kam daala hai aur daalo" as a result rice became extremely soft (like halwa) Sigh* now I don't ask her to guide me I just make a phone call to my mother and then I cook. Now my husband consider me a great cook shuker hai. My MIL doesn't appreciate me but I don't mind. my huuby is happy with my cooking skills that's my achievement. I do admire her and her abilities but now I don't expect any kind of admiration from her side. I believe that you should make yourself fair no matter what others do to you.

[Reha]

Re: how to impress sweet churii(knife) MIL?

u sound so convinciing Reha that ur future MIL will NOT utter those words ever again :)

lol...karna parta hai :)

well this sometimes doesn't work with every mother in law, it's my personal experience, when I got married I didn't even know how to boil rice like I didn't know how much water should be added in the pot, my MIL cooked them infront of me, next time when I started pouring water in the pot exactly with the quantity she told me before but you know she came and said "nahi ye pani kam daala hai aur daalo" as a result rice became extremely soft (like halwa) Sigh* now I don't ask her to guide me I just make a phone call to my mother and then I cook. Now my husband consider me a great cook shuker hai. My MIL doesn't appreciate me but I don't mind. my huuby is happy with my cooking skills that's my achievement. I do admire her and her abilities but now I don't expect any kind of admiration from her side. I believe that you should make yourself fair no matter what others do to you.

If MIL wants to teach you something, I dont think its a big deal. In fact, its kind of nice to have someone teach you a different method of cooking. You learn ideas and can get a little creative.

If she nitpicks when you cook, that is not very nice of her. In which case, I would simply say "jitna paani apko dalna hai ammi khud hi daldein...mein kharab na kardoon".

[sanadubai]

Re: how to impress sweet churii(knife) MIL?

“jitna paani apko dalna hai ammi khud hi daldein…mein kharab na kardoon”.
u r so sweet…kitnay pyar se bat karlyti ho…
its great idea…