How to identify a gold digger

okay so guys i need some advice again

what are some ways i can identify a gold digger , any red flags that y’all lookout for ?
something obvious that i might be missing ?

any way i can test girls that i think might be just after money ?

yeah...you can test them by seeing whether they walk right past u or not...

....if they do...they're probably just a gold digger :)

If she throws names like Tiffany and Co, Cartier, Bvlgari and Mont Blanc she is one! If she prefers Madinat Jumeira over Taco Bell she is one!

Re: How to identify a gold digger

If she is way too hot for you then definitely a gold digger.
She demands expensive stuff and rewards you with sex.

^ Lol..

Re: How to identify a gold digger

Gina you are right but that theory of yours can only work if the girl is poor or middle class. If she is saying madinat jumeirah because she herself goes there alot too then this idea of seeing if she is a gold digger or not does not work.

:D

Re: How to identify a gold digger

if she asks you about your bank balance before your horoscope, then she's a gold digger.

if she asks you how many big of a house you are buying for her before she asks about your health, then she is a gold digger.

i'd have to disagree..she can just be walking past you because she doesnt know who you are at all as a person.

I don't know if there's any one way or solid way to identify a gold digger...A girl could be talking about high end brand names with you and that doesnt necessarily mean that she's a gold digger either. She could just be ..talking?

hahah

ooouch

:hehe:

Re: How to identify a gold digger

Some girls are just used to a better life and thats fine, nothing wrong with that. But if she throws a tantrum when you take her to Taco Bell or McD's once in a while for a quick bite, then we have a problem.

If she shows dissatisfaction at a gift you give her and wants a more expensive one, red light.

Im all for going to nice places, buying presents and shopping sprees but a girl needs to be equally comfortable with simple things like leftovers, home made food, a simple card or an email.

Things that we do for each other are representations of how/what we think of them, right? If my husband bought me a HUGE diamond, that would be awesome! I would SO NOT complain, lol. However, if he loves me to death and gets me a tiny ring I wouldnt complain either.

Re: How to identify a gold digger

simple - be your clay human self and then see the reaction.

in a matter of a few seconds, through the person's words, thoughts and actions, s/he will become v. v. clear to you for their intentions and low self esteem.

Re: How to identify a gold digger

according to the hubby, its someone who asks for things rather than waiting for you to offer. like you're out clubbing and she asks you to buy her a drink, rather than waiting for you to buy her one yourself.

Re: How to identify a gold digger

by definition its a girl, who is around you because of your money/position.
No harm in that. We all get matches according to positions/status of our families.
BUT gold digger won't be around if you lose money or position.

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so how about a silver-digger? :hmmm:

Is it teh same if it's a coworker or someone in teh same field?

And that might be true for ppl who are just dating or messing around, maybe even teh engagement period, but not once they are married...

same thing less deadly.

How about Grave Digger:hmmm: