How to help myself meet the right guy.

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Re: How to help myself meet the right guy.

@Eronaille

Honestly, its best not to get too desperate especially at your age. Have faith and the right person will come along at the right time. Also, try to be realistic about your expectations regarding married life. A lot of young girls delude themselves into dreaming about their knight in shining armor who will whisk them away to the land of happy-ever-after. Live isn’t a fairytale and contrary to popular belief, you will never find “the one” or “Mr. Right” unless you a truly fortunate and blessed. You will have to make concessions one way or another especially if you are aware of your own shortcomings that may negatively impact a potential suitor’s perception of you.

I think especially at the initial part of the courting phase, its best for both parties to be straightforward, honest and not try to play (mind) games with each other. Be polite, respectful, show interest in what the other part has to say, ask questions, discuss your expectations of what you both desire out of a relationship, and be careful not to be to over zealous in your desire during the initial phase – nothing kills attraction and respect faster than the reek of desperation .

Thankyou for your sound advice.

I definately do hold faith in God that he right person will come at the right time but i do also have to get off my ass and give myself the best chance of that happening.

Having been through a 2 year relationship and a couple of rishta processes and a recent one which didnt work out im quite aware of compromises that have to be made. I dont really believe in the one i believe there are many ‘the ones’. Im not desperate but i am worried.

I like your advice about the courting phase but its finding someone to court in the first place thats the issue.