Re: How to have beatuful and healthy baby?
When I first say this thread, I swear I thought the OP was a troll (a combination of the content of her post and how she wrote it I guess).
After reading the responses, I realize she is legitimately asking these questions.
I don’t think it is wrong to want a beautiful child, however, I do think that her extreme anxiety over this issue and the emphasis she is placing on wanting the child to be fair and beautiful is not a healthy way to think.
I will be the first to admit that when I was pregnant, I first and foremost always prayed for a healthy child but I also prayed for the child to be happy, beautiful, pious, a practicing Muslim, respectful, smart, happy, achi kismat wali/wala etc. I had no vain reasons behind these prayers because as mothers we find our baby beautiful no matter what they look like. I simply wanted the best for my child. As parents we always want the best for our kids right?
With that said, the OP needs to stop losing sleep over this. Just pray for the baby to be healthy and leave the rest up to Allah. Placing too much emphasis on looks is not good and Allah may not be pleased with these thoughts.
I’m fair skinned and my daughter is a bit darker than me. I think she is beautiful just the way she is. I LOVE her tan color and wouldn’t change it for anything in the world.
OP - It is hard to imagine it right now, but trust me, when that baby comes out…no matter what color or what it looks like, in your eyes it will be the most beautiful human being you have ever laid eyes on.
