So let’s say you’re married happily, you are at a get together, your spouse is busy chatting with friends, and you find that another married man is flirting with you… You feel the vibes and see his body language and you’re no bachi so you know..what do you do?Suppose this man is someone you know closely enough to meet him frequently at dawats, etc.
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Btw, this isn’t about me. Yeah, 
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I would get extra-clingy with my husband and give the creep THE glare while doing so he knows I’m deeply committed and loyal and I’d rub my husband’s biceps to hint at the whopping the creep will get if he doesn’t back off. Bas. 
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Would you tell your husband so he can smash that dude's face?
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*ask him what is he looking at…i had this problem and i saw at them with sarriiii hui shakal and tried not to look at them again…but its so annoying that some thurkee uncle is looking at you constantly…
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i tell my husband straight away and he stares at them with most ghussila look :P this solves the problem
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@Niksik
Nah, I wouldn't bother unless he was really being a creep ORRR me and the hubby wanted to make fun of him, ahem. Also, knowing how my future hubby is, he probably would get real pissed (although wouldn't beat him to a pulp unless the creep crossed the line) and all that isn't worth it, woh bhi over some random horny weirdo.
BUT if this happened more than once, I'd be sure to mention it to my husband so at our next get-togethers he is in on what is going on and keep an extra eye and ear out for him.
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Im not married but this has happened to me before. Its appalling behavior to say the least.
I don't care who they are or how closely they know my family...I tend to cut things short and leave. And I don't think its something I necessarily even know I am doing...it just happens. I pick up on it and want out of the situation asap.
Trying to be tactful makes me nervous in such a scenario.
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2 words. Break wind
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Im not married but this has happened to me before. Its appalling behavior to say the least.
I don't care who they are or how closely they know my family...I tend to cut things short and leave. And I don't think its something I necessarily even know I am doing...it just happens. I pick up on it and want out of the situation asap.
Trying to be tactful makes me nervous in such a scenario.
This.
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My hubby is so sharp, he sees it before i do, and then we try to avoid the creep as much as possible, and then hubby teases me about it later
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where is TLK??? :)... Emergency :)
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No way would I tell my hubby, it would pray on his mind all the time and he'd probably want to knock the guy out..
I'd keep away and if it was repeated I would tell hubby that they guy guy gives me the creeps and stay as close to hubs as possible
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IF he's cute, flirt back.
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sub yee hee kehtey hain - this is life1’s punch line now … 
and what if its other way round? 
like married woman hitting on happily married guy?
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Happened to me during my previous job. He sat across me too. It was so uncomfortable, he would jump in every conversation I started with another coworker. He eventually asked me out on my last day there. I tactfully turned down his offer. It's so hard to deal with these things. My hubby deleted all my work contacts from my Facebook account. lol
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Would you tell your husband so he can smash that dude's face?
Yep , she should ask her husband to challenge him for a duel and the one who wins gets the lady.
She needs to grow up , what makes her think that he is flirting with her ? He might be a happily married friendly guy who does not know his limits. Just confront him and let him know his limits , most desi in US are Jahil goofs anyway. Those days are over when only desi doctors and engineers were green card holders and citizens here.
Is she look alike of some famous model or film star ?
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LOL
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But , but , but he was interested in your riveting conversations like I am , I am happily married with three children. Does it make me a creep or pervert for having an intelligent conversation with you.
Please tell me the truth so that I can add you to my ignore list. 
P.S: He invited you for to a lunch a dinner because he was losing an intelligent guppy forever and he wanted to have that intelligent discussion one last time. 
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Ask him to meet your husband.
Then say: "My husband is good at karate and he is looking for someone just like you, to practice some new locks"
That will put cold water on his hot 'armaan'.