How to go about?

tipusulatn · December 4, 2009, 3:26am

Hi

I know most on GS forum are based in Pakistan/middle east/US/Europe (all these considerable Pakistani representations), there are lot of Rishtas available for them, so only discussion is how to chose the best among availables.

I am based in Singapore, there are lot of young Pakistani families here. I am sure that would be many options for young children growing in 10 years time. But for not much right now.

Since girls are grownup here, at least they want to get to know the person before even agree with any Rishata.

Most of Pakistani educational qualifications here, does not carry much value for job or career purpose, so it would be a risky to get a rishta from a Pakistan. Only chance for her was there are handful Pakistani students studying at university, but due to her up bringing she never socialize with them.

I know someone marry in Pakistan and bring husband here, now the guy is jobless for past 2 years depending of wife’s income. I am sure no parent wants this to happen their daughters.

I hope that GS members from expatriate families could share their experiance /knowledge.

taqlee · December 5, 2009, 12:05am

common problem in Asia ....

tipusulatn · December 5, 2009, 7:20am

Why only in Asia?

Chaachi · December 5, 2009, 2:51pm

Re: How to go about?

because less ppl move there n plus it's so close to pakistan tat i think they just go bak to pak when the time arrivest o find a suitable match. i think it wud have been the same in middle east many decades ago but now there are so many south asians n pakistanis residing there tat it's relatively ez to find a good match.

i know of a family who lives in indonesia n all their kids are abroad. i think such wud be the case with many families living in Asia tat they send kids abroad (canada, US, Australia, etc.) n kids find pakistanis there as there's more pop of pakistanis in those countries compared to Asia.