Re: How to get over my lost wedding tape
rocking vibes: i have watched my video quite a few times after it came back from pakistan where it was for 3 years...yes we only have one copy and some family wanted to watch it back home..
Re: How to get over my lost wedding tape
rocking vibes: i have watched my video quite a few times after it came back from pakistan where it was for 3 years...yes we only have one copy and some family wanted to watch it back home..
Re: How to get over my lost wedding tape
I had a few of those thoughts too but my days after the wedding were spent having so much fun that I quickly got over the small things that went wrong. I even opened up a thread here about how some things didn't go as planned but it became easy for me to not dwell over it because I realized I was happily married and that's what mattered.
wannabe-mum- how was your sisters wedding? did she have a valima and all the functions? I only had nikah at the mosque without a ruksati, although I had a valima the day after:)
My sister had her a Valima, she had professional photographer and her hubby bought her gorgeous clothes - he sent her to India to do her shopping.
I didn't have a professional photographer/videographer. My cousin brother is ma'shallah very good at taking photo's and he has all the gadgets etc. He's married to my nand!! He did a brilliant job of the photo's. My hubby's mama bhai did the video - it was OK but very obviously amateur!
I haven't watched my wedding vidoe much for other reasons - however, I would love sit down and see it one day soon.
We have these thoughts you know? As human beings we are NEVER content - be it money, clothes, love, freedom whatever, we are never ever content with how much we have. And this goes for these fellings of being hard done by too.
Oh and no, not in Pakistan, I got married in the UK as I am from here.
Didn't fancy the whole lets go to India thing!!!!
Re: How to get over my lost wedding tape
maybe you can ask the professionals who made the movie...they have copies....
i am not sure where you live or who made the movie,but theres no harm in trying....
wannabe-mum: Its nice to know you had good photos that you like, I wish I had good photos that I was content with. Even my close family said photos didnt come out well i.e the photos were dull looking...havent you seen your wedding video for a long time? trust me if you know that your video was not good then your better of not watching it. Reason for this is that you will get more depressed like I did when I watched my video after such a long time.
But your probably much stronger than I am..I think way too much!
No i didnt have professional videography it was home made video thats why noone has copy..
Re: How to get over my lost wedding tape
wannabemum: I am also from uk, what area are you from? I got married in 2002 but didnt even have digital photos, their are all from a film camera...I dont think many people had digital then as they do now...Did you have your wedding pics taken from digital professional camera?
Re: How to get over my lost wedding tape
sorry wannabemum another question why do you feel restrained from watching your wedding video?
Re: How to get over my lost wedding tape
i do think you are relying way too much on this forum too get over stuff. like how to get over a lost wedding tape , there is no guidelines for this sort of stuff. time is the best healer ppl loose way more valuable stuff e.g relatives ,siblings .
anyways you should officially get over your wedding now 6 years is a long time instead you should be celebrating all the happy memories of those 6 years and many more to come. the wedding day is just a day you should be more happy that your actual marriage bond is strong and your happy
now come on women get over it !
sorry wannabemum another question why do you feel restrained from watching your wedding video?
I've sent you a PM
Re: How to get over my lost wedding tape
I lent my chachu my video and i don’t think ill ever see it again. :hinna:
^ You know, a few months ago a relative was asking my what I was wearing to my BIL's wedding. I said that I would most likely wear my wedding clothes. She replied saying, "But those are too light to wear to the wedding! Make sure to get your hair done or something to make it look heavier." And the thing is, I know my MIL made my clothes on the light side for brides, but if I wore them to my own wedding, how could it be too light for someone else's??? I think she just needed to slip the comment in there. And it did make me feel bad initially, and revived some of those feelings of disappointment, but I know my clothes are really lovely, though perhaps a bit light, that there was love that went into them, and that I look hot in them and I shouldn't let her get me down. :D
Wow! people can be so rude. Even if they were that" light", she never should have said that.