Re: How to get over my lost wedding tape
^ You know, a few months ago a relative was asking my what I was wearing to my BIL's wedding. I said that I would most likely wear my wedding clothes. She replied saying, "But those are too light to wear to the wedding! Make sure to get your hair done or something to make it look heavier." And the thing is, I know my MIL made my clothes on the light side for brides, but if I wore them to my own wedding, how could it be too light for someone else's??? I think she just needed to slip the comment in there. And it did make me feel bad initially, and revived some of those feelings of disappointment, but I know my clothes are really lovely, though perhaps a bit light, that there was love that went into them, and that I look hot in them and I shouldn't let her get me down. :D