Re: How to get over an emotional/stressful situation?
Acutally the problem wasn't with my mom, it was with my eldest brother...and my mamu was asking my mother to go aganist him (give him up,) and of course my mother couldn't do that...so my mamu gave all us up :(
I guess i will google ways to "move on..."
Even if he had a problem with your mum it's strange (and ott) that he blocked you as well..
Agree with the others who say try and move on..
Re: How to get over an emotional/stressful situation?
Acutally the problem wasn't with my mom, it was with my eldest brother...and my mamu was asking my mother to go aganist him (give him up,) and of course my mother couldn't do that...so my mamu gave all us up :(
I guess i will google ways to "move on..."
I can see why your mum is stubborn in that case. For her brother to push that decision about her son on her is quite a big deal. Good foe your mum to stick up for her son. There is no real way to 'move on'.. you said you have your hands full with a toddler.. thats a start in keeping you preoccupied. As for your family, just make the most of your time with your sibs and mum. Nobody is better than that, not even your mamu. Plan days out with them, or have family meals. Its little things like that, that are important.
Re: How to get over an emotional/stressful situation?
I would suggest reading Reclaim your heart by Yasmin Mogahed. Insha Allah this helps. x