Re: how to gain value in anotheres eyes
i personally find the idea of ignoring pretty flawed. why does one believe that he/she have some divine attribution that will make others suffer if they ignore them. there is a great possibility that in the mean time others do access other possibilities. my so my conjecture is its better to give them space and just be there when its required or at least just keep a smile on your face.
but then its just my falsafa of life.