how to forgive and forget shameful act of father

[parisbynight]

Re: how to forgive and forget shameful act of father

@ekumunng

It’s unfortunate thing to happen but remember he is also a human and often wives/children forget the emotional side of husband/father. Our society demands a man to be rock solid but deep down they are as fragile as women and can break down easily, just like a dam who held water for long but suddenly breaks up.

The guy needs affection and care from his family. You mentioned in original post that the daughters love him, he was their pride yet later you mention that they leave him alone like a piece of furniture in the house.

Loneliness leads to depression and in depression people even commit suicides. So I’m not surprised that he acted that way, no one is perfect.

the fact that he feels as an extra piece of furniture was something he told me last time i saw him. he was sad and depressed. not happy with life with allah ..with how his family turned. he always had extremely high expectations from his daughter and although the daughters are nit doing anything majorly wrong…he feels he failed as a father