Re: how to forgive and forget shameful act of father
hnn not sure how to explain..but in their culture when they feel bizati they say .meri shalwar uthari :(. so my friend says he used to say that before too..that the family made him begairaat and i assume it was his way of saying i give up.
he isnt mentally ill but very lonely because he lacks the love and care of wife. he feels that now that he is ill.. he is seen as useless whereas he was head of all decision ..
i do understand my friend because i know for a fact she cared way too much abt her dad and the fact that her father did not even consider her feeling n her presence hurt her because she is trying her best to comfort him always.
iam in their house a lot. this man is so good at heart. he can be traditional and too much into pride and i guess thats what broke him. that the wife and sister isnt considering him as much now.
i hope the best for this family. it breaks my heart. i known him for soo long now