How to find the right girl?

[Danish_Born_Desi]

Re: How to find the right girl?

Hmm my serious thread has been overrun by non-serious posts :(

[saieen]

Re: How to find the right girl?

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its all ur fault. i point me finger rite at you. finger pointing wala icon

[AnGeL_EyEs]

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@itsme01

DBD - If you are open minded and not culturely conversative - then go for Muslima rather then just a Paki.

very good advice. it’s hard enough to find a life partner..so why limit yourself to just a paki girl. Go for a muslima (assuming u are muslim)…from any culture.

[AshKhan]

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I'm sure one day u'll find the right one ...she is out there...dun't worry ...just bare in mind ...its always nice to look for certian charateristics in gal (& vice versa) coz in a relationship its really important that mental frequency should match with each other...but also remember u just can not find 100% of all the qualities that u r looking for in a gal...either ur gona find it with 80% match or less. I mean kabhi koi bhi cheez 100% nahi hoti that why marriage is a relationship of understanding and compromise. Rest you can put 100% of ur comittment in a relation to make it work successfully.....So good luck.,.

TC.....

[BirdFlu]

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@nia_khan

as far as i have seen and heard - MOST of the people in college or in high school are fooling around. They got this new chapter they read "girlfriend or boyfriend" -So since its new they want to have someone they can hold in their arms, or talk late at night while goign to bed etc. Girls on the other hand think this is it. i found my prince charming and everything will be fine. Then guy wants more - at that age guy want something physical rather then emotional. some of those relationships do go on till college and some actually become true and people live together till they die but thats very rare.

Usually at maturity level 2 people actually know they have feelings for each other. Guys take a little longer for their akaal to go from their feet to their head. Girls at early age do have akal but its locked somewhere - it takes few kicks on that door before akal comes out.

Real love occurs in late ages - but its fun to fall in love with someone in highschool and later on cry for days/years and one day when you get your senses back you go what the heck was i thinking - so when you get all mature and what not and as you walk in your mind through you life book you look at yourself during that time crying and talking to your pillow - its the funniest thing ever I also believe you meet alot of wrong people before meeting the right one :D

danish- that person usually comes to you. never approach someone with that intention that they might be it - once we dont have what we expected we cry and then we feel our heart is aching but in reality its a heart burn since you were so busy crying - you didnt eat properly.

:):):)

[Zainab_Ahmed]

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seriously..how do u find a rite lifepartner?
how do u know which person is perfectly rite for u?

i guess just leave it to ur parents or mayb ur destiny?!!

[symbol]

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@Sara516

Why not!! Whats wrong with hanging out with friends at night? Why the hell should I change my major or not take this class or get a job coz its late at night N then I hear, fun is for after marriage, YEAH RIGHT.. you get about a half hour of fun, and then u get pregnant, deal with in laws n all that crap, jawani hoti bhi nahi phir

holy sh!t do you whine alot…just reading this makes me want to smoke crack.

[Sayonee]

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^lol

okay I was just reading this thread and i think your absolutely right about girls going to the gym. I swear if u don't actually work out then your gonna stay fat or unfit, like I started going to the gym first once a week then twice and now i go 3 times but you can't just run like crazy the first day u have to slowly progress..

Well most desi gurls in my area are fit but i never see them in the gym :Hmmm:
oh and finding the right gurl?!?

I donno i would say guys are like parking spaces, all the good ones are taken and only handicapped ones are left :P LOL
But you can't really say that for girls since sooooo many good girls are still available :D

I guess if your goodlooking and what not alot of ppl will try to hook you up.. but err good luck with that !

[Danish_Born_Desi]

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Thanx for all the advices ppl..appreciate. I totally understand that its very difficult to find a girl that matches all the qualites I want. But I just think that there are sum basic qualities that has to be there and which arent based on looks but really on mental and personal compatibility. Sumtimes its just feels like that there arent any girls left that have those qualities. Its all about money and looks :(
My friend just found a girl..he has been really confused weather to marry her or not. She has this extremely wonderfull personality but she dosnt attract him 100% phisycally. I think she's really charming and I think he's damn lucky. sigh my girl must be outthere sumwhere..must find her before its too late.

[Sara516]

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@MYwish

lol.. sara is a traitor… anyway.. don’t worry you can still be her devar.. do you have a nice freind ??? we can fix sara up wid him…lol

Stop trying to steal your jaith away from me

[Sara516]

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@symbol

holy sh!t do you whine alot..........just reading this makes me want to smoke crack.

Maybe crack wud sudhar me down :(