Reminder: Double-standard: when a girl asks you to leave your friends, she is insecure, loves you too much
when a guy asks you to do the same, he is a manipulative controlling a**hole.
No Dope, when a guy does the same, it means he is insecure and possibly has trust issues.
Does she watch to much bollywood movies that she love's you in 2 weeks??
Anywayz its better tell her the truth that you don't feel comfortable with
her our what she said talkin about marriage and kids already.
There is no proper way to break up, just be civil and understanding if she does get emotional. Don't prolong it, the more time goes by the more attached she will be.
first of all, i would like to bring your attention to your nick which seems very un-islamic. we should know, why did you pick this alias, didnt you have Fear of Allah that time? so justify this or pick a real "halaal" nick and THEN start doing dawa'h.
if you really had some Fear of Allah, instead of hanging around on such a forum where girls' existence is very visible, ... you should've been in iraq/afghanistan fighting for and helping your muslim brothers and sisters.
I hope you are not talking to girls here cause this is totally against our islamic teachings.
i've got more to say but fear of allah does not allow me to. i will say one thing though but you will need to pick an arabic dictionary to find the meanings
لم أسألك الكويسيتون
ma'asalaam ya rafeequi'
Be polite and nice to her. It will hurt her in the beginning but then she will get use to it. Don't make major decision of your life just because she loves you and you don't want to hurt her.
I sense a biological clock ticking. You're obviously feeling pressured and want to back out. She seems to be coming on strong and scaring you away. I think you need to tell her the truth quickly, just sit her down and honestly say it face to face. You'd be doing her a favor because if she really wants marriage and kids- and it's not with you, then she needs to find the right guy asap. Tell her you care enough about her that you hope she does find Mr.Right who is the man of her dreams.
The best breakup line - ever. Works everytime like a charm. Thank me later.
Man with a Plan.
p.s: Even tough you want to breakup, your choice. Please make sure she is not ‘hurt’, also if I were you, I would consider her side of the story and discuss the marriage and leaving the friends thing. Maybe, maybe you both can find a middle ground and work things out.
cudn't agree more, if u dont believe in the day of judgement, go ahead, continue dating and you'll find out these meaningless things u were doing were sins that will be punished, ur not even allowed to touch a female whose not a relative and here u r going about dating sum1, fear Allah or u will regret it dearly....this is wrong people...stop encouraging it...n try to bring people back to the right path.
Astag firul'lahaa rabbi min kul'ly zanmbin w'atubu elaihe