How to dump a guy who is of the possessive type and may turn aggressive when dumped.
Are there any effective methods that you can contribute?
Re: How to dump a guy?
use laxative....
Re: How to dump a guy?
ok
are you realy want to know how to dump a guy nicely ?
*Meet him:
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Don’t break the news to him over the phone. Not only it is rude but he’s always going to wonder about what went wrong. Give him a chance to hear it from you directly. Email and SMS is even worse. Invite him home or go for a walk together. Either way, sit him down and explain how you feel. Be honest!
*Answer why?
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Most men are intelligent. He will want some kind of an explanation. Don’t just say ‘It’s off’ and walk away. This was the guy you fell in love with once. So be kind to him and explain why things didn’t work out for you. You owe him some kind of explanation especially if you’ve been together for a while.
*Blame yourself
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It’s easier and kinder to blame yourself for the break. You could say ‘It’s me, I’m just not ready for somebody as nice as you’ or something to that effect. Don’t lay all the blame on him or you’ll soon be having a fight rather than a conversation.
Let him think
Once you’ve told him, don’t expect an answer immediately. If he’s in love with you this will probably be breaking his heart. So respect that and let him be. Don’t shower him with questions or a hundred ‘I’m so sorry’s’. He will need a few minutes to let it sink in. Give him that time to think about what’s happened.
*Let him talk
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He may want to explain things especially if he did something wrong. Hear him out but don’t have that ‘Oh, I wish I had known’ look on your face. If your mind is really made up then let him now this is the end of the road. Avoid getting trapped into the loop again. A firm yet gentle ‘no’ is the best for both of you.
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Just friends?
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That’s great if he wants it that way. But make sure you tell him how you want to keep the relationship. If a clean break is what you want, be clear that he understands that. If you want to go on as friends, but he doesn’t, then respect that and move on. Don’t sob uncontrollably on his shoulder as you’re the one breaking up with him! Remember?
*Don’t hold on
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Let him go. If he wants to leave, then let him. Don’t keep pulling him back into conversation. He probably just needs a good drink and some sleep!
Make sure you leave the relationship where it belongs, in the past!
If all these ideas will not work, or woo Jaan naa Choary tu
Try another idea,
bring him on date, far and lonely place probably out of city , stop your car near to river , walk with him up to center of Deep River Bridge, and while talking nicely , suddenly push him from bridge. Clean your hands that’s all
Gaal muki jaan Chuti
Re: How to dump a guy?
Leave him a Post It note a la SATC :cobra:
If he might get aggressive....text him bye bye. Get your brother to beat him up too
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text message breakup
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Arrange this kind of ceremony
Re: How to dump a guy?
If guys name is Salman, during a conversation tell him
"I love you Anwar"
he will leave you anyway.
Re: How to dump a guy?
If guys name is Salman, during a conversation tell him
"I love you Anwar"
he will leave you anyway.
A text "Anwar I am pregnant"
followed by
"oops wrong window"
would be much better :D
Re: How to dump a guy?
- Hire a hit man ( just kidding do not try this at home)
- Start acting like a really bad person fill in the stars yourself .
- Whine him to death.
- Tell him you have communicable , non treatable disease.
- Tell him you are terminally ill.
- Tell him you were told by doctor that you have cancer and only a few more weeks/months/year to live.
- Tell him your parents are not the ones you live with but you were adopted by these guys your mother is infact maid and your father is khansaman of the family.
- Demand him to fulfill your drug addiction.
- Do not try all of the above all at the same time.
P.S: I will add more creative ways of dumping a clingy or aggressive person.
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Dramay bazz all of you. Just say you want a commitment. Simple. Sheesh.
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Tell him you don’t like his Mom and that he would have to look after your parents. 
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Just tell him you were born as Junaid (or Rafeeq, Aslam, Babar, Sheedha, Asghar, well you got the hint...)
Basically that you were Pappu before you became Pinky.
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Ask him where the relationship is going.
Ask him to talk to you about his feelings.
Make him feel guilty for not talking about his feelings.
Cry in front of him.
Take him ring shopping against his will.
Go gagga over babies around him.
Cry
Tell him the names you've already chosen for the kids you two will have.
Make a copy of the key to his place and invite yourself over anytime.
Watch him when he sleeps.
Cry
Gossip about other girls.
If he's Desi, gossip about his family.
Ask him every 2.5 seconds if he thinks you look fat, if some random chick is prettier than you.
Cry
Tell him about your makeup collection in detail.
Offer to put makeup on him. Don't listen to refusals. Paint his face.
Cry
Doodle versions of your first name and his last and show it to him with pride.
Cry some more.
Talk about your period every month. The bloating, the cramps, the nausea, the mood swings.
Take him to the bathroom with you like you do you girlfriends.
Make him cry.
Re: How to dump a guy?
Send him pictures of engagement rings, links to baby names websites, go see some houses with a realtor on one of your dates.
Khallas!
Re: How to dump a guy?
Send him pictures of engagement rings, links to baby names websites, go see some houses with a realtor on one of your dates.
Khallas!
I think that will not work with desi guys , they are looking forward to become papa , have no problem with buying and presenting an engagement ring and settle down after wedding in a new home of their own.
This is more true for westerners who like to have a girlfriend with all the perks and without any commitment.
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Not the desi guys these days…
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aatay main namak k barabar , matured desi guys have this kind of mentality. 
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^ I think we have prime examples of guppans looking for these sorta guys Mirch uncle.
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Tell him you got some "jaan lewa bimaari" .....