Re: How to deal ??
ever since july(ish) 2004, i have never met someone who has impacted my life SO much that i lose my cool and sukoon over that person..
why.. cuz i made sure that NOTHING bothers me, if it does, i DEAL with it, i take the problem-factor out of the equation.. if i cant, (after-all murder IS haraam)(dammit:D) then i’ve made sure i make that person nuts ENOUGH that he/she forgets bugging/influencing my life..
the more importance u give to a person, the more it bugs u.. so u stop giving importance to them.. hath hilao,
makhi uraao.. done deal!
look around for example.. u KNOW the cases we talked about.. and HALF problem was we gave too much light/importance to them.. so as a result they kept “seeming” to be really important/significant to us..
moment u turn ur back on it/give up on them.. out comes the sucking-feet treatment 
(or the bakri-phase)
even if it doesnt, pshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.. in the mighty words of zeus, screw it..
put the headphones on, and .. beedi jalaaaayi le JIGAR say piyaaaa… 