How to deal with your own family?

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Re: How to deal with your own family?

@lahore2nc

It took me few weeks to find out the job, but I am working and earning well. I bought the home for my parents as well.
Hopefully we can learn a lesson from here and comes up with a plan that works for me.
It is so tragic that even after doing all the drama and they succeed at the end, they want me to behave normal like nothing happend.

Yeah, that sounds like a very toxic dynamic. It is going to be difficult because the only feasible way to physically get away from it for you would be to get married (but getting married just to get away from parents is generally a disaster since these unions are rushed). Basically, the best thing to do is to mentally become stronger. You sister should not be an authority over you. Maybe this is coming from an Americentric position, but at a certain age siblings do not need to be authorities over each other. That leaves your mom. To deal with her you will definitely need to provide an iron will as an opponent. Be more stubborn than she is and get the support of your dad.