Do you know the reason for his divorce? If the family and the guy were so nice and accommodating in the first place, he would be happily married right now. How did he end up being divorced? You need to establish their integrity before your family goes through with this.
yes I do know the reason of his divorced, He married a girl with a good intension of converting her to become Muslim, but after marriage she refused and that is how divorced happened......and their marriage was only paper marriage till she would accept Islam and she didnt so they got divorced.