First of all, Thank you all for replying.........I have read all the replies in a possitive way. I want to tell you that I have been checking this thread every hour to read what you guys have been writting........I greatly appreciate all your input. At first it had hit me hard when I came to know that these questions were asked, I feel better now.
Honestly, I have seen many people rejecting a girl just because they are short, not to the equal status and so on and it deeply hurts the girl. Boy's family will do that even for the green card or whatever.....even if the guy has no status he and or his family has so many demands for the girl or girls family...... I have seen it in my close friends family. My point is everyone has feelings (regardless of what gender you are).
I didn't want to hold my picture because I have already seen his picture and I didn't want to hurt his feelings by him feeling that I rejected him just cuz of his looks, but at the same time if they are ignorant and looking for only outer beauty I didnt want to send them my picture because if they are that kind of people I do not want them to see my picture. Due to this reason I was in a great confusion. (Note: I had not asked for his picture, he has sent it himself without asking to move forward)
This is the First proposal and I was little scared to show my picture not because they might say No! I don't want my picture to be shown to anyone who values fake beauty than beauty of the heart.
You guys are so beautiful people, I already love you guys, really bunch of thanks for helping me out.
I will let my family exchange the pictures and if it is meant to be it will happen and if not than it wont-----No hard feelings :)
I guess I am just new to this triditional wedding proposal thing, and that is why I was stressing.......I am fine now after reading you replies. I will be confused till I send my picture because it is after sending my picture I will find out little about them...........Maybe I am over stressing myself it will all be solved after they see my picture.
Please keep me in ur Duaas.........May whatever is best for both of us happen Insha'Allah.
Thanks Again