The thing is that I have concidered him only because I have heard they are a very nice and good family. To me Personality comes first that is why even him being devorcey is not a propblem If he really is kind of a person what I have heard about him.
Do you know the reason for his divorce? If the family and the guy were so nice and accommodating in the first place, he would be happily married right now. How did he end up being divorced? You need to establish their integrity before your family goes through with this.