Re: How to deal with This Situation
honey, im totally with u on this one…i would personally reject someone in their face regardless of whoever it was. I mean a girl is not an object on a showcase to be picked up from.
I am totally against those ppl who say “gori honi chahyey”, is she heavy or is she slim…"lambi or choti"etc etc…she is a human being, she deserves respect and anyone who is prioritizing looks and such things are just lame…cos their own son’s or the guy himself is no prince charming and then u get these aunties looking for Hoor pari’s…pisses me off majorly.
Neway…honey u should be proud of who u are regardless of ur weight…im sure ur a lovely person on the inside and they should accept u for that reason alone, so be straight with them… 
INSHALLAH things will work out if its meant to be.
Good luck… hugs xxx