Re: how to deal with lack of respect
Because, in the end if the relationship ends what has the husband lost? No men ever get a divorced ‘label’ on them that wont let them re-marry. And its the wife who suffers dragging her kids along who suffer for no reason at all. And no matter how much people argue of equality between husband and wife there’ no equality between husband and wife. There is equity, as Dr. Zakir Naik says, but not equality. And equity and equality are similar, not the same. They are not equal because just like any country/team cannot be run by two kings/leaders a house cannot be run by two leaders. So one of them has to be the leader and the other has to surrender.
And honestly, if surrendering a little gives you and kids and your husband peace and happiness in the long run, then why not? Why let our egos destroy a relationship that will not only affect us but our kids, our families, our husbands, and their families.