how to deal with kids bullying your child

so, this doesnt happen often.. least ive not seen it happen to Heba… so this is the first time i witnessed it, and lets just say, I wasnt too pleased

we went away for the weekend… and we went out to have dinner at a restaurant that had a separate lil play area for the kids (such a blessing for parents really).

Hebz was in the play area by herself in the beginning, and then a group of 3 other lil girls joined her (who were all from the same party and a lil older). Heba LOOOOOVES kids, especially if they are older than her. She first had a sook cus she thought they would take her toys but we explained they were just friends and she needs to share… she was fine after that..

neways, she was following one lil girl around cus i think Heba thought she was pretty.. she was copying her every move and i was laughing my head off. Then, all of a sudden, they started bullying Heba. But Heba being heba, didnt comprehend and kept smiling and playing with them… and whatever heba wanted to do, they would roll their eyes and say No.. lol.. khair, i thought it was halarious.. UNTIL the pretty one heba was following shoved her to the ground.. I was getting all teary at this point..

So i went inside, and obviously consoled my lil one.. and the pretty one said “we dont want her to play with us…” (something along those lines) I wasnt gonna say anything to them, but at this point i just turned around and said “its ok.. she just wants to be ur friend and play..”. She said the same thing again.. and again i repeated myself and took Heba out

The girls mother came in, who was very sweet and got the girl to say Sorry… she said “sorry Emily” (hence Heba reckons her name is Emily since that day :smack: )

Khair, how do u deal with kids who bully your kids. They are prob too young to comprehend the consequences.. i dunno. Mine is too oblivious to notice.