how do you deal with prepartum blues ladies?i am in my first trimester and i am very sad,nothing in my lie seems exciting and i want to just stay in bed and do nothing.husband and the older kid is out almost all day.i dont want to meet people and have conversation.i am turning into a hermit.last night i found out that husband is planning to go for omrah in coming ramzan and i am very sad about it.he had a plan but i thought he had dropped it but now he really wants to go and leave me and kids at home for 10 days.i want him to do things on his own but his timings suck.i am tired all the time and to handle 2 small kids on my own is going to be tough on me for 10 days.tell me people how do i handle it without sounding like a controlling,nagging wife?
Re: how to deal with it?
if you have two small kids, then focus your time and energy on them. go for walks in the park. play with them at home. read books to them, draw with them, paint with them.
you could be around 5-6 months preg when husband goes to umra right? why does he want to go at a time when you need him most? someone offered him a free ticket or something?
Re: how to deal with it?
well thats my question too.i really dont understand why does he need to go now?i think he is just being stubborn.