How to deal with a former friend

[soundarya]

@girlwithdreams007

@soundarya what does OP mean?

@soundarya- you know honestly i don’t even want to talk to her, I know sayin salaam is the right thing to do religiously, but to me that opens the door for communication and since she has talked SOOOO much trash about me, why should i open a door that is closed shut?

OP is original poster
Then don’t say the salaam first. But it is necessary for you to say it back to her if she says it. Like someone posted earlier, give a cursory salaam back, then walk away.

@girlwithdreams007

“hey my mom thinks that we should see a movie, and I thought it was a good idea ? Hey my mom was wondering if you wanted to come oveR and I thought the same”

“my mom”- this girl can’t think for herself. She probably has only her husband and mom in her life.

@girlwithdreams007

the thing that pissed off my mom is that she sent a message to MY cousin in pakistan telling him to admit to the relationship already and change his status (relationship) on facebook, and that got him mad too..

I get so annoyed when I deal with or hear about such people. That’s really nosy… it’s none of her business and I agree with PCG, it’s psycho. Amna has spent 20 or so years like this, she’s most likely not going to change… so just limit your interaction with her. Explain to your parents that you can’t be friends with Amna. Your personalities are completely different, so why force friendship? And if that girl does something else again, let your mom know this girl is destroying your reputation, you’ve had enough.