How to combat this uncertainty

[mzprincess88]

Re: How to combat this uncertainty

@Mamzie

Is there ever a time, a prospect, a situation where you don’t have any confusion whatsoever and can gladly and happily give your approval for a rishta?

I feel however many times i have come to a point where the proposal seems to be progressing a bit too fast for my taste, i feel very uncertain, nervous…get cold feet and literally am in a panic mode. Is that only me or is that very natural?

Its after all your life’s decision and with what we see happening around us, its so hard to trust people. I pray for a proposal where I don’t have to think too much or worry too much :(.

Please keep me in your prayers!

I am not quite sure what the answer to your question would be in an arranged marriage situation (because I presume that is the point of view from which you are asking) but for me, within the first few minutes of meeting hubby, I knew he was the one (not arranged). There was no cold feet, no second thoughts, absolutely nothing but certainty Allhamdullilah. If you are not 100% sure, do not proceed until you are comfortable.