It’s probably one of the saddest messages posted on here
Re: How to break off the marriage that is scheduled to happen in 4 months?
Four months is still a very long time. I broke mine when it was supposed to happen in 20 days. But I was certain - those people tortured me for over six months. One should be sure before making such a decision..
I do think this should be in the relationships forum though
Re: How to break off the marriage that is scheduled to happen in 4 months?
just go ahead, without wasting time! its better to break it off before than after!
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My cousin was set to get married in December. She just broke off the engagement the night before Eid. It was becoming painfully evident that our family and her future in laws were very different, and some unsettling things were starting to happen. It turns out her fiance was starting to also feel like maybe it wasn't a good match after all (arranged rishta). They both told the respective sets of parents and called it a day.
We were all a little sad, because there was certainly emotional attachments all all ends, but seriously, it is definately better to call it off now, than after!!
Re: How to break off the marriage that is scheduled to happen in 4 months?
I think a mod needs to move this to Life1..
Mccague, what are your reasons and would your family be supportive?
Re: How to break off the marriage that is scheduled to happen in 4 months?
Why do you think you need to break it off?
Re: How to break off the marriage that is scheduled to happen in 4 months?
just go ahead..call it off
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^ agree , ur parents will want your happiness regardless of 4 months or 4o days before the wedding.
If it is something that can be resolved do try. I guess you'd know by now & if it's something that wont ever change then it's better to break it off now than break his heart later.
Re: How to break off the marriage that is scheduled to happen in 4 months?
Make sure it's ABSOLUTELY what you want to do. You can't really turn back once you've made up your mind about calling it off. I would suggest that you really think things through - look at the bigger picture and ask yourself whether there is an actual issue? If there is, then ask yourself whether it can be compromised on?
If the answer to the latter question is 'no', then let your parents know your decision and don't be 'guilt-tripped' into going ahead with the marriage.
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i agree with disney princess, if it is something that CAN be dealt with than re-think 20 times before u call it off....also do istikhara...that will also help in the process...im not sure what the issue at hand is...but if its something silly that can be compromised on then please do think about it.... :(
Re: How to break off the marriage that is scheduled to happen in 4 months?
sometimes ppl need to hear out loud what they already know in their heart.
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even if you have 1 day left BREAK IT OFF if you need to...
DO NOT MARRY INTO SOMETHING YOUR HEART IS NOT INTO. You are better off single.
Re: How to break off the marriage that is scheduled to happen in 4 months?
I don't think your message/post is as sad as it would have been if you were married and wanted to break THAT off......so go ahead, follow your instinct and do what you feel in your heart.