Re: how to become less sensitive and have a "who cares" attitude?
Try helping out people who are in a LOT OF TROUBLE, people who are truly suffering in this world. You will automatically have a who cares attitude for silly, nonsense stuff.
Re: how to become less sensitive and have a "who cares" attitude?
The attitude is not something you can gain over night or something like this. The attitude comes after life experience and after hardning one self. It is not easy, but do able.
Re: how to become less sensitive and have a "who cares" attitude?
pah. u want do be someone, pretend u are, fastest route.
Re: how to become less sensitive and have a "who cares" attitude?
^ Reminds me of Remi Gaillard. :)
Re: how to become less sensitive and have a "who cares" attitude?
tell your self..."there have to be some ignorant people and i can NOT change their attitude but i sure CAN mine...so i'll forgive them and move on and i'm NOT gonna let them ruin my life"** :)**
Re: how to become less sensitive and have a "who cares" attitude?
I hear you. And I know how important it is to be less sensitive and rather casual about things.
1: Have COMPLETE and UNSHAKEN faith in Allah. Tell your self whatever comes, its from Him and he is the best Caretaker. Worrying will only add to your problems. Such faith, every one has, but reiterating it helps.
2: Cultivate some positive hobbies to let your self occupied. Most of the times we think over certain things and keep feeling depressed and this way affect ourselves further. If you simply choose* to not think about them, and rather turn to something else, more constructive and occupying, you will not be feeding that depression at least.
3: Be bold too. Sometimes we do not let it go whatever keeps cooking in our heart due to so and so reasons. Start to express yourself, so that your burden is shared.
Re: how to become less sensitive and have a "who cares" attitude?
When you have to live with seemingly endless pain, and/or a world of apathy around you then you begin to have a "Who cares" attitude.
Often if you have had to come through hard times without support you dont care about supporting others... it becomes a dog eat dog scenario.
However this does not make it right... yes you can almost program humans like robots to ignore many things... its the mind over matter scenario that we all hear about. Also sometimes the endless cycle of pain and loss makes us care less about others becuase you cannot afford to care... your allready too deep into things to care... like the little birdie story.
Almost constant exposure makes you feel less aware of things as well. You become used to not caring...
but some people have "i don't care" attitude without going through all the suffering and constant pain...i am just talking about it how to learn to ignore small things..like someone being rude to u etc...
Re: how to become less sensitive and have a "who cares" attitude?
^ well some people are simply born with that. others have to practice it and acquire the art :)