How to be strong & stop the urge/temptation..

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Re: How to be strong & stop the urge/temptation..

@redvelvet

4) **^**If it’s the latter, he knows how to reach you. If he were interested and truly wanted to make things work or even to maintain solely a friendship with you(which can be tricky to do with opposite genders)…he would have stayed in touch. It doesn’t seem like he’s even interested in being just friends. I could understand if perhaps you were the one who was dumped or if things were in the “beginning stages” where you’re trying to get a feel for him/figure him out and felt some uncertainty. But you ended it…so move on.

this. Go watch “He’s Just Not That Into You” (yes, chick flicks are 100% accurate). No but for reals. When someone wants to reach out to someone, you do it. There was a guy who used to visit me at work all the time. I quit work and he left the country. three years later we managed to get a hold of each other. Whereas there are people that live down the street from me that I never talk to because I don’t want to. If he hasn’t reached out to you, he’s not worth it. Move on. He clearly has (or is attempting to)