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If you want to do these things for men other than your husband, if you want to show yourself of to other men, nude, naked, etc etc…and you find is respectfull and honoring for women or yourself in any way, go ahead. Take off your clothes, go to a bacheloretett party, night club, sleep with other men, Who cares 
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Sing to your husband? What the hell? I doubt there is time and energy for that given how big babies desi men can be, and how desi children are harder to control than babies of any other race…
Have you SEEN desi kids in public?? Compare the typical behavior you see of a desi child vs. a white child in public. And then tell me where you’ll have time to “sing”.
I think Blushing Vision is being brainwashed by her controlling husband, who I also think posts on this forum.
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Lahore 981. That is the silliest comment ever on the history of this website. So if you're too exhausted to please your husband in the way that has been stated on this site, that automatically means the same woman is prancing nude in front of other guys?
I suggest you print this out and show it to your wife. I bet she's going to fall on the floor laughing.
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lolz @ sing to husband! i cant control laughter sorryy!!!!
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i dn't think it means literally!! basically wat she posted is sayin that a woman shud be attractive for her husband only, and hav a gud sense of humour, etc... wats wrong wit all of that? :p
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Intersting and I appreciate your thoughts sara.
I did not understand what a man expects when he comes home till I started working myself. He needs appreciation, be cared, and loved. After facing so much outside the home, he is just looking for a soft corner… How you do it, it is upto you. You don’t need to message his back, or feet to do it. Just be polite and caring in your attitude and show concern. Have a cup of nice tea with him. The next thing he will do is to ask you, “Tell moe how was your day, whats up, what can I do for you”
If any woman knows this, she can be regarded as a “Queen of his dreams” wife by a man. And any girl can win at the man.
Disclaimer: This only applies to sensible secure and strong men, not to those who are mommy boys
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No sara. I think the author means it literally.
So, should we be singing Indian songs? Or American rock tunes? Is it haraam to sing bollywood songs, since they're made by hindus and also because the videos feature very gandhi scenes, and also because some of the lyrics are taboo?
I mean, whether Indian or American, could we sing songs of the George Michael calibre? Like "I want to censored like an censored" ?
Or should we stick to Pakistani songs? Like Shazia Manzoor sorta stuff?
Or is all that haraam? What's left? Kids songs like "Akoona mata ta?"
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Araam se araam sey
This was not meant to be taken like this. This wasn’t even directed at you. You being a westernized girl don’t have to take it on yourself.
Haha. And I am not married yet 
Seminole knows what message I want to convey to her
By the way. Where do you keep hiding all the time. Suddenly you appear from somewhere and post a bombastic comment
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Sara516 is way wiser than you PCG. She understood what both sides of the story are. 
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no only in fairy tales
real life-give guy massage…guy goes to sleep.
yep! purpose of our life
thanks for saying that!
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^ BTW there is a class of men whom I label as "Biwi boys" or "Joru ka ghulaam" or "Wife's husbands"
What I said does not apply to those men also.
After marriage, I think a man can only be successful if he knows how to keep a balance between his wife and mother. A strong man always know how to do it............ :D
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Lahore 981: What is posted here is not a recommendation to be a normal person. Its a recommendation to be some super-woman hero at home who coddles her husband like a mom coddling her baby. Dream on if you think any of this stuff will really happen.
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lemme put it this way...
muslim wife...
be mommy, slave, chef, gardener, interior designer, well-groomed, massi, singer, dancer(i think she left it out), listener, stress reliever ;), masseus (sp), advisor, child bearer and child ki take carer, have no self-respect (ignore his faults and say sorry even when its not your fault), joker, player, obeyer, doorman and automatic greeter...all the while looking immaculate, pretty and put together.
and in return....
ummm be rewarded with "queen of his dreams" title.
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^ but hope is eternal...
"Meray Sapno ki Rani Kab Aai gi tU
Beeti jai Zindagani kab Aai gi tU
Chalii AA, oh tu Chalii AA"
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PCG,
I do not agree with you. The domestic/family/marital affairs and environments are quite different than our lives as an independent individuals.
We may not be able to handle pr understand the situation of a married person being single ourselves. Simply put, unmarried and married people are the passengers of two different boats. If one is sailing in river, the other is sailing in deep deep sea.
I absolutely do not blame you for having such thoughts. It is the way a single person thinks. Allah has put in you, being a women, a deep sense of concern, caring and love for your family. Being single, you don't have the perception of that.
You don't know of how a married woman thinks. But I know when you'll be married and have a nice loving hubby, have nice little babies of your own then, you'll see, you'll change automatically. That will be a circle of your life your own tiny little world.
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What else do you want? Dang it… Women are so demanding
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Man I can not hold my laughter. This is crazy 
How come you can pass such nice lightly humorus comments…
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Crashdummie, cut and paste key baad ...review karna bhi seekh loo. :D
I know GS starts with G...but G does not stand for Gay....
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me??? i didnt…blushing vision did!