so whats more greater and better for the parents and for the kids… to cut down on your worldly needs( yes, parents worldly needs… obiviously mother is not borrowing money and spending it on sadqa-e-jaariya) and not to run his son into living hell (or send him to hell after death if he is not able to pay his debt)..
p.s. i dont understand this islamic version of ‘wa-soolii’.. . your parents didnt not do any ehsaan on you to bring you into this world…and if your mother carried you for 9months, it doesnot give her the right to use/abuse you whatever way she wants to through the rest of your life…
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